Gender Equality

My first day as a Peace Corps Volunteer started with two cups of delicious tea, two home-grown eggs, and then two meetings. The first meeting introduced me to my organization (Marungu Hill Conservancy Association)- lasting 20 minutes. The second was a village-wide meeting about the severe problem of water- lasting 4 and a half hours.

As a side note, Kenyans will not eat, take a sip of water, or use the restroom for a meeting's entire duration. It doesn't matter how long.

Before coming to Kenya, I knew the gender roles and equality were vastly different than in America. Women here are much inferior to men socially. A woman will generally not look a man in the eye (children wont either, both genders) when they are having a conversation, and it isn't unusual to see a married woman walk a few meters back from her husband if they were walking together. Women mop the floors, prepare all food and tea, wash the dishes and clothes, harvest in the garden (men usually do the planting, and can sometimes help harvest), clean and straighten and tidy everything, and not ever complain about any of it. And at the dinner table, women serve the men first, and usually eat last.

It is also taboo for a woman to ask a man out on a date. But more on that in another post.

Anyway, back to my 4 and a half hour meeting. The meeting was entirely in Kiswahili, which I liked because I can then practice listening to it (even though I did not understand anything). It started and ended with a prayer, and literally the first hour of it was individual introductions of everyone at attendance (around 80. It reminded me very specifically of the "Ents" in the Lord of the Rings movie). Women generally sat in one segregated area, a little bit farther from the head officials leading the meeting (I am included as a head official), but what became a most pleasant surprise was that women of all ages spoke and participated equally with the men. They spoke passionately about their lack of water access, and they captivated the audience with their forceful tone and animated gestures. The women show by their daily, hard labor that they are beyond strong. It was refreshing to see a voice representing those actions.

Compared with other parts of Kenya, I think my particular area is a little bit more progressive and relaxed. Despite the clearly defined gender roles, both women and men attend primary and secondary schools (though men attend at a much higher rate), and from what I have observed so far, the culture is making a shift toward gender equality. Still, I was pleasantly surprised to find so much voice on the female side of the human spectrum here in this small rural village on the south-eastern coast of Kenya.

The women here, after all, are the backbone of the Kenyan society. Besides being friendly, I'm not really sure what the Kenyan men do with their time.